Bite Size Resolution Day 2
21
MARCH 2017
What did you discover yesterday regarding the balance inequities in your life?
Today is the day to find some of the balance we found was lacking. Downsizing contact lists & finding the balance in relationships is the key today.
I found that although I do practice the balance concepts – I need to divvy it up a little more beneficially. I tend to go ‘all out’ in a fast a furious way to get a project completed (ok I confess….as a Gemini it is usually 6 projects at once). Yep, I’ll be writing the segment on multitasking for me as well as for You. 😉
And then I take a day to play.
I strive to break up the tasks a little more by doing little play bits or rewards in between. That way I won’t suffer fatigue, mental overload or stiffness from staying at task too long.
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“Givers have to set limits because takers rarely do.”
Irma Kurtz
Relationships of all types, romantic, friendship or business need to be reciprocal in some way. If they are not, or are draining your energy then they must be released.
Being reciprocal does mean “I give you…..you give back now”. Again it is a balance. If you find yourself always giving while the other is always taking, this has to stop.
This is not as Scroogey or cruel as it may seem. It’s called self-preservation or honouring ourselves and our time & energy.
If you a prone to over-giving, taking back seat, feeling like a doormat…..another days Bite will cover this.
Actionable steps:
- Today I will continue to downsize my contacts; personal, business, emails newsletters, etc. This seems to have evolved naturally in the past ½ year, but more needed.
- This morning I’ve been unsubscribing, declining invitations to events that my heart isn’t in, and generally formulating a plan as to where/how I wish to spend my time and efforts.
- Please share on our FB Challenge page what you will release today.